7 Ways to Stop my Cat from Biting Me

Cat biting

Is your precious furbaby a biting machine? Do you spend more money on bandages and healing ointments then on hairball remedy? Then you may be living with a feline biter.

No one wants a pet that is constantly nipping or biting; it's like playing with a cactus! What can we do as pet parents to stop this nasty behavior? Read on to discover 7 ways to stop your cat from biting.

Why Is My Cat Biting Me?

Before we can tackle the task of curing the biting, we must first explore the reasons behind the toothy-attacks...do any of these seem familiar?

Stop Petting Me!

Any person that has ever been owned by a cat can probably attest to the petting induced aggression bite. This is when you are happily petting your feline friend and he "suddenly" turns and clamps his teeth down on your hand. Although, it may seem to have suddenly come out-of-the-blue, if you were paying attention to your cat's body language, he was most likely showing you signs of being irritated before the nip occurred. These signs can include;

  • Tail thumping or whipping
  • Flattened or twitching ears
  • Shifting of body positions
  • Eyes focusing on your hand
  • Purring stops
  • May emit a meow or even a growl

If you fail to heed these many "warnings" then your cat will most often resort to the only other way it has of communicating its displeasure...biting!

​Why does my cat want to end the petting session?

Cats are not dogs and therefore seem to have a lesser threshold for hands-on companionship; dogs can spend hours letting you rub their bellies. According to Canidae, here are some reasons why your kitty may be fed-up with all that attention.

1. Overstimulation - there's only so much affection a cat will take before sensory overload occurs.

2. Not now - sometimes this species just wants to play and not be petted. If this is the case, your cat may put up with the petting for awhile, but will often resort to a bite after he's had enough.

3. Sensitive to specific areas - some cats may like specific areas scratched, while others are a no-no. Learn these individual places on your feline to save yourself a bandage.

Misdirected Aggression

Sometimes a bite can occur that has nothing to do with you; wrong place at the right time! These bites can happen for different reasons, but the three most common are;

  • Your cat is frustrated while watching birds or another cat outside in its territory
  • One cat is taken to the vet and comes home with the scent of "that place" on its fur
  • Play agression

7 ways to stop your cat from biting you

Now that we know the secrets to our feline's biting, let's go through the 7 ways to alter this annoying and painful behavior.

1. Aggression Brought on By Play

As we mentioned above, play aggression is one common reason our cats are biting. This is because cats are predatory by nature so by offering your fingers, hands or feet as a toy it's an open invitation for your feline to give you a hearty bite or scratch. Doing this action with a kitten is hard to resist (they're so cute) but it will become a learned behavior if we continue to do so. For this reason make sure to provide plenty of cat toys for your pet to enjoy. If you want to interact with kitty during playtime, use toys on wands, laser pointers on ones that can be tossed and chased after. In addition, make sure everyone in the household follows the no-hands/toes-rule for playtime.

2. Call a Timeout!

Cats can become overstimulated during play (especially if those toys have catnip in them) so when you notice the playtime is getting more bitie and aggressive, take a time out. This can be done by immediately turning your back on your furry buddy or leaving the room after the nip has happened. Don't speak or resume playing for one minute. This can break the bite-cycle and let your cat know it's unacceptable.

3. All By Myself

On the paws of point number two picking up your cat right after the misbehavior and placing her in another room by herself, will send the message that biting is going to end the fun and will eventually reinforce the "no-bite" rule.

4. Spend the Energy

According to I (heart) Cats, if your feline is biting you outside of playtime, it may need to expend more energy. This is a good time to pull out the laser pointer or toys on wands. Run your cat or kitten around the room so it can get a full out play and burn up all that vacuum energy.

5. Handle Properly & Respectively

Does you cat always nip after you reach over to pet him? This is common for felines as this action can be perceived as an aggressive act. Some felines are fine with this, while others have a no-tolerance for the action. If your cat is one that doesn't appreciate the overhead scooch, then be sure to respect its wishes and approach a petting session with the back of your hand on the side of his face or on his belly. In addition, respecting all the wishes of our cats is another useful and important tip to avoid getting bitten.

6. Relieve Any Underlying Anxiety Issues

If you cat is constantly acting out in an aggressive manner, it could be because it is feeling anxiety. This can occur in rescues, senior cats or those that have experienced neglect or abuse. To help ease kitty's tension there are products on the market that mimic the pheromones of a feline, which have been proven to reduce anxiety. These come in diffusers, sprays and wipes. Ask your veterinarian if this may be right for your furry buddy.

7. Seek Veterinary Advice

Your veterinarian is a good source of answers to why your cat may be biting. For severe cases, he or she may prescribe medication to help relieve anxiety or recommend special cat food the contains tryptophan (sleepy ingredient found in turkey) which will produce a calming effect in your pet.

Kitty Etiquette

It's not impossible to stop your cat from using your body as a chew toy. Follow these tips to help put your feline on the right path and to instil some kitty-etiquette. With lots of love, patients and re-direction, your cat will soon be the wonderful companion you've always dreamed of having.

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